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Frequently Asked Questions
Do you have a wedding registry?
Your presence at our wedding is the greatest gift, and we are truly grateful for the love and effort you’re putting into being with us on this special day. While we haven’t set up a traditional registry, if you’d like to give us something, we would greatly appreciate contributions toward our future together. Gifts can be sent via Venmo or Zelle, or placed in the card box at the wedding. Your generosity means so much to us.
What is the dress code?
Our theme is an End of Summer Soirée, celebrating the close of summer and the first hints of fall. Think vibrant colors, chic yet playful attire. The dress code is Cocktail Attire/Semi-Formal and we encourage bright, bold colors! Men can opt for a lightweight suit or dress pants with a button-up shirt and tie, or add a colorful pocket square for a pop of personality. Women can choose colorful cocktail dresses or elegant separates. Please click here for inspiration.
When should I arrive and depart?
We hope you can make this a mini-vacation! While you're welcome to arrive and depart as your schedule allows, we recommend arriving two days before the wedding to allow time to adjust to the time zone and settle in. Our wedding will take place on Thursday, September 3, so we ideally recommend arriving by Tuesday, September 1, to account for the time difference, flight delays, or any unexpected travel hiccups. If you're already traveling in Europe, you may not need as much time to acclimate, but we want to ensure you're well-rested and ready to enjoy the celebration after your travels.
How do I get to the wedding? Will there be transportation?
There are limited rideshare and taxi options in Vence, so we encourage most guests to stay in town. We have arranged shuttle buses to pick up and drop off guests from select hotels. Please refer to our Hotels page for more details. Transportation times will be shared closer to the wedding. Vence is a beautiful town and conveniently close to the venue. Closer to the wedding, we will also share a list of private drivers you can contact ahead of time if the provided options do not fit your needs or schedule.
Is there parking at the venue?
Yes, there is parking available at the château. That said, we don’t recommend renting a car, as the roads in the area can be quite narrow and parking in nearby towns is often limited. We hope to reserve the available spaces for our guests who live locally in France and will be driving to the wedding.
Is the ceremony/reception indoors or outdoors?
Both the ceremony and reception will be outdoors. September in Saint-Jeannet is usually mild and sunny, with daytime highs around 73 °F (23 °C) and cooler evenings near 58 °F (15 °C). Rain is uncommon, but we suggest checking the forecast closer to the date. We checked September 3, 2025, and saw a high of 77 °F (≈ 25 °C).
Can we take photos during the ceremony?
We love sharing and making memories with all of you. Our officiant will announce a few minutes before the ceremony begins for everyone to take out their phones and snap photos. Once the ceremony starts, we kindly ask that phones and cameras be put away so we can all be fully present in the moment.
What about the afterparty?
After dinner, we will move the celebration indoors for the afterparty. The venue has a 10 PM noise ordinance so the outdoor festivities will wind down then and we can keep the fun going inside for all of our feral party rats!
What color is the wedding party wearing?
Bridesmaids will wear soft butter yellow. Groomsmen will wear black suits.
Are little ones welcome?
We know traveling this far can be challenging if you can’t bring your little ones. The venue itself is historic, with certain restrictions and a pool without a lifeguard. We’ve already spoken with parents who are bringing children to ensure everyone is aware of these guidelines. If we haven’t spoken with you and you’re planning to bring your child, please contact us so we can discuss if it’s possible.
Do I get a plus one?
We kindly ask that guests refer to their invitation for details on who is included. If your invitation specifies a guest by name or says “and guest,” a plus one is reserved for you. We wish we could invite everyone, but due to space limitations, only those listed on the invitation are invited.
Still have questions?
For any other questions, please reach out to us at kim.grant.wedding@gmail.com or by text. We’re happy to help with anything you need! We kindly ask that you text or email us your questions whenever possible. If a phone call is needed, please send us a quick text first so we can set aside time to call you back.
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