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Frequently Asked Questions
Are Vence and Saint Paul de Vence the same place?
No, Vence and Saint-Paul-de-Vence are two separate villages. While we do recommend visiting Saint-Paul-de-Vence during your time on the Côte d’Azur, we will not be providing transportation from Saint-Paul-de-Vence.
When should I arrive and depart?
We hope you can make this a mini-vacation! While you're welcome to arrive and depart as your schedule allows, we recommend arriving two days before the wedding to allow time to adjust to the time zone and settle in. Our wedding will take place on Thursday, September 3, so we ideally recommend arriving by Tuesday, September 1, to account for the time difference, flight delays, or any unexpected travel hiccups. If you're already traveling in Europe, you may not need as much time to acclimate, but we want to ensure you're well-rested and ready to enjoy the celebration after your travels.
What is the dress code?
Our theme is an End of Summer Soirée, celebrating the close of summer and the first hints of fall. Think vibrant colors, rich tones, and chic, playful elegance. We encourage bold hues and expressive details that reflect the transition of the season, such as cobalt blue, plum, burnt orange, and other saturated jewel or sunset tones.
This event is formal, but not black tie.
For men, attire may include a formal suit, with the option to add personality through color, texture, or accessories. A tie is encouraged, and a colorful pocket square or subtle pattern is welcome.
For women, formal gowns, elevated midi or evening dresses, or elegant separates in bold or rich colors are perfect.
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What color is the wedding party wearing?
Our bridesmaids will be dressed in soft sage and olive green tones, while our groomsmen will wear classic black suits. The mother of the bride and mother of the groom will be wearing deep burgundy hues.
How do I get to the wedding? Will there be transportation?
Rideshare and taxi options in Vence are limited, so we encourage guests to stay in town when possible. We have arranged small shuttle buses with designated pickup and drop-off points throughout Vence on the wedding day. Pickup locations and transportation times will be shared closer to the wedding and will be within walking distance for most guests staying in or near the Vence village center.
Vence is a beautiful town and conveniently close to the venue. Closer to the wedding, we will also share a list of private drivers you may contact in advance if the provided transportation options do not fit your needs or schedule.
Is there parking at the venue?
Yes, there is parking available at the château. That said, we don’t recommend renting a car, as the roads in the area can be quite narrow and parking in nearby towns is often limited. We hope to reserve the available spaces for our guests who live locally in France and will be driving to the wedding.
Is the ceremony/reception indoors or outdoors?
Both the ceremony and reception will be outdoors. September in Saint-Jeannet is usually mild and sunny, with daytime highs around 73 °F (23 °C) and cooler evenings near 58 °F (15 °C). Rain is uncommon, but we suggest checking the forecast closer to the date. We checked September 3, 2025, and saw a high of 77 °F (≈ 25 °C).
Can we take photos during the ceremony?
We love sharing and making memories with all of you. Our officiant will announce a few minutes before the ceremony begins for everyone to take out their phones and snap photos. Once the ceremony starts, we kindly ask that phones and cameras be put away so we can all be fully present in the moment.
What about the afterparty?
After dinner, we will move the celebration indoors for the afterparty. The venue has a 10 PM noise ordinance so the outdoor festivities will wind down then and we can keep the fun going inside for all of our feral party rats!
Are little ones welcome?
We know traveling this far can be challenging if you can’t bring your little ones. The venue itself is historic, with certain restrictions and a pool without a lifeguard. We’ve already spoken with parents who are bringing children to ensure everyone is aware of these guidelines. If we haven’t spoken with you and you’re planning to bring your child, please contact us so we can discuss if it’s possible.
Do I get a plus one?
We kindly ask that guests refer to their invitation and RSVP card or RSVP section for details regarding who is included in their party. For guests in the United States, this information is listed on the mailed RSVP card. For guests abroad, it is included in the email invitation.
Your RSVP will state “We have reserved ___ seats in your honor.” The number of seats reserved reflects the guests named on the envelope or invitation. If only one name appears on the envelope or invitation but two seats are reserved, this indicates a plus one.
We wish we could invite everyone, but due to space limitations, attendance is limited to the guests listed on the invitation. Thank you so much for your understanding.
***Please remember that each person in your party must submit an individual RSVP. For example, if two seats are reserved, two separate RSVPs must be submitted.
Do you have a wedding registry?
Your presence at our wedding is truly the greatest gift, and we are so grateful for the love and effort it takes to travel and celebrate with us. We have not set up a traditional registry. If you wish to give a gift, a contribution toward our future together would be deeply appreciated.
For convenience, gifts may be sent via Venmo or Zelle, or placed in the card box at the wedding.
Still have questions?
For any other questions, please reach out to us at kim.grant.wedding@gmail.com or by text. We’re happy to help with anything you need! We kindly ask that you text or email us your questions whenever possible. If a phone call is needed, please send us a quick text first so we can set aside time to call you back.
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